To my young friends out there- growing up is a life-long process. It is not something you achieve. I've learned this lesson many times in the brief weeks of 2011.
The year started with the sudden death of my oldest brother. He was a complicated man who appeared to be one way to the public, but had some dark demons that left their marks on those closest to him. I learned that no matter what we try to tell ourselves, our actions have life-long consequences, whether good or bad, and they always affect others around us.
Within a week of my brother's death, some really difficult things happened in my spiritual life. God allowed me to see things up close that challenged me to not just see but to act. In the company of other grounded Christians, I did take a stand and the price was high. However, God is so faithful; He gave me courage and strength to get through some difficult days and nights. I learned that even when you can't see where the road leads, you have to be faithful to follow.
In the midst of that challenge, my health took a tough turn. A sinus and ear infection invaded my life and for almost 6 weeks, I have been less than myself. I'm now coming out to the other side and am appreciating the health that I do have and looking forward to enjoying life again.
Last week my future son-in-law took a bad fall and sits now with a fractured tibia, waiting for the doctor's decision regarding surgery or no surgery. He is dependent on others for the basic things in life.
Through all of this the lesson has been clear- trust and rely on God for your strength and He will not fail you. Difficult times are certainly going to come. We don't see them around the corner, but they are there. Maturity happens when you navigate those difficult times, trusting God to guide your steps. He will bring new people into your life and may remove others. In any case, His will is perfect.
Putting on the armor of faith protects us from the slings and arrows of this world. I highly recommend that you seek that armor out, polish it up and put it on! In the end, it will be the protection that never fails you.
